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We’re
all seeking that special person who is right for us.
But
if you’ve been through enough relationships,
you begin
to suspect there’s no right person,
just different flavors of wrong.
Why is this?
Because you yourself are
wrong in some way,
and you seek out partners who are
wrong in some complementary way.
But it takes a lot of
living to grow fully into your own wrongness.
It isn’t
until you finally run up against your deepest demons,
your unsolvable problems – the ones that make you truly
who you are –
that you’re ready to find a life-long
mate.
Only then do you finally know what you’re looking
for.
You’re looking for the wrong person.
But not just
any wrong person:
the right wrong person – someone you
lovingly gaze upon and think,
“This is the problem I
want to have.”
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